Abstract :
In this study, researchers wanted to know how the communication patterns of parents
with children who are achievers who live in the area of online game rental. Along with
technological developments, the type of game is also capable dimankan online or better
known as the Online Game. With the rise of online gaming circulated in Indonesia especially
in Surabaya making a new phenomenon among fans of the game. Background of any person
who plays her life ranging from the chaotic to the school or college kids who did not pass.
Playing the game does have two sides, negative and positive. On the positive side can train a
pattern of thinking, reflexes, and may also be used as a place to earn money by following the
game or sell items and characters in the game. But what happens when playing games over a
certain effect could be very fatal. Starting from a chaotic real life, do not pass the school
(college) for a still a student or students or other matters such crimes because it ran out of
money to play online games. This online game was much loved by children, and the most
dominant ntuk play this online game is a little child, the child who is in the range of age 12-
15 years. Where a lot of people who think that children - children who love playing online
games will only get negative impact. But on the contrary, in fact, such an assumption is not
entirely true. The research was concerned with the problem child online game users who have
a place to live performance that is close to pnyewaan online game.
Data collection techniques used were depth interview included in the qualitative
research. Here a qualitative method using the theory of Joseph A. DeVito describing
communication patterns used by parents with children who play online games that have
achievements.
The data contained in the object of the research described in the identity of
informants. The division includes the informant's name, age, address, last education,
employment.
The results of this study based on analysis of data obtained from interviews with
informants. Authoritative use the Communication Patterns, communication patterns show a
balance between acceptance (acceptance) with kontroling parents, children are given the
opportunity to communicate openly in order to convey their opinions and what they feel,
punsihment given by parents of children who make mistakes are also on the grounds that
clearly and without using physical violence. Authoritative Communication Patterns of
success used by parents is a factor that can make children successful accomplishment. The
attitude of parents who understand the potential of children, child's potential direct and
develop the potential of children toward better is what makes the children acquire some
achievements. Also from the wawncara the researchers did note a parent can find out the
wishes of children and vice versa children also know the personal wishes of parents in
shaping a child, they are consistent with the theory of causality tribusi, parental attitude is
influenced by personal and situational.