Abstract :
The source of this research is based on problems that occur on a lesbian social phenomena in the
society will everyday life. Until now, lesbians are still considered a deviant behavior in society. There is a
lesbian who chooses to pick the closed and those that are to be open to do with doing the Self-Disclosure
with one family member.
Theory used in this study is the theory of interpersonal communication or interpersonal theory.
Theory of Interpersonal Communication is the process of sending and receiving messages between two
people, or among a small group of people with between two people, or where a small group of people
with some effect and some immediate feedback.
The method used in research using qualitative methods that aim to explain the phenomenon with
deep. This method describes the outline of an event as well as clear as possible without any treatments of
the studied object.
Conclusion The results of this study is about the depiction of Self-Disclosure or lesbian person's
self-disclosure to one member of his family. Two of the four informants in this study chose to open to her
mother, one informant on his father's open, and the latter informants chose to open up about kelesbiannya
to her brother. Of the four informants can be concluded that they do Self-Disclosure to one member of his
family to obtain recognition of a lesbian relationship is still considered taboo by most people.